Having a perfect relationship or marriage is certain impossibility, but having a near-perfect one is a definite possibility—all it takes is a conscious effort from the parties involved to keep it going. Most relationships fail simply because someone isn’t doing enough. Even the tiny things that are often ignored like sharing a laugh or regular communication can go a long way. The male folks are often to blame when a relationship lacks the spice it needs to stay alive, and that is because most men lack the quality of being romantic. They can do anything to get a girl, but the moment she’s in their nest, they switch off their romance buttons.
Women are like flowers; they’re so tender and soft, so to get the best out of them, you must attend to them and water them as often as possible. Women don’t want a man who is insensitive and unromantic, they want someone who’ll wake up every day, and tell them something sweet…It’s just who they are. Unless you understand this as a man, you may lose her to someone else. But of course, that is unlikely with Elcrema around to give you the best relationship tips.
So here are 6 things I know women want you to do to make them smile always!
1. THEY WANT YOU TO BE CHIVALROUS
She may never mention it, just so she doesn’t seem ‘too needy’, but your woman sometimes, definitely wishes you’d be more gentlemanly, and treat her like a princess. Doing tiny things like opening and holding a door for her to walk in/walk out or helping her get dressed can give her that feeling. Most guys feel it’s unmanly to do things like these, but those who do are adored.
2. SHE WANTS YOU TO REMEMBER EVERY IMPORTANT EVENT
Women hold certain dates very dear to their hearts, and if you’re in their life, and want to be in their good books always, never forget those dates. Never forget her birthday, and never forget your anniversary (wedding or relationship); forgetting dates and events like that would give her the impression that she doesn’t mean much to you —in fact, if you can, be sure to remember her parents’ birthdays as well. lol. It’s just the way women are; so please, get with it.
3. SHE WANTS YOU TO INTRODUCE HER TO FRIENDS AND FAMILY
We all tend to show those that matter in our lives to our family and friends, and that is why women take it seriously. It makes them feel valued. No woman wants to be the side chick (or side woman), they want to be ‘the one’, and they see these introductions as an affirmation of that.
4. SHE WANTS YOU TO NOTICE HER ALWAYS
When she wears a new hairdo or a dress–maybe it’s just new nails or lip stick; she wants you to be the first to take notice of it and compliment her. Women feed off compliments; it makes them feel even more confident and beautiful.
5. SHE WANTS YOU TO TELL HER SHE’S BEAUTIFUL
It’s not enough to tell her that she looks good in a dress or that her new pair of shoes is colourful, you must also remind her of how beautiful she is, and how she’s the most gorgeous woman you’ve ever been with. You may not know this, but every time a lady hears that she’s beautiful, she feels priceless.
6. SHE WANTS YOU TO TELL HER YOU LOVE HER
Even if it’s just by dropping her notes or saying it to her face, you must always remind and reassure her of her place in your heart/life, and how much you love her. Apart from women, everyone needs a little reassurance from the important people in their lives.
Have you been doing these to your lady? If you aren’t, it’s never too late.