I get surprised when ladies complain that they hardly have men coming their way; I mean in this 21st century you can’t do simple things to get men notice you? That’s unbelievable.
The only tactic some women know in order to attract a man is by being flirty; that really is only a tactic that would probably get you to a man’s bed but would hardly get you to his heart.
Most ladies complain that they don’t get to meet men who would want a serious relationship with them, especially the kind of relationship that would lead to marriage. They eventually go on blaming their looks, the society, men at large and many even blame it on a spell that men don’t come their way — forgetting that the only person that can really stop you from being who you want to be is YOU.
This piece is for that lady that doesn’t seem to get men (good men especially coming their way).
8 things you should know
1. TAKE YOURSELF OUT
You can’t be home every moment of your life or probably live a double lifestyle of work and home and expect to get really noticed by men. They might probably notice you but you don’t give them that desire to come up to you with the kind of rigid lifestyle you live. This isn’t the 15th century where everyone knew almost everyone in a community; there are about 7 billion people in the world, with over 3 billion women. Take yourself out, most times alone, have a good time with yourself and feel good about it — trust me, men love when ladies do this.
2. HAVE THAT HAPPY FACE
It doesn’t just end by going out. If your looks send an angry message then you would probably get the men scared of coming over to your table. Put up a smiling face, be happy and the men would come through — no matter how unattractive you might think you are. Let me let you in on a secret — every man loves a lady that smiles and that’s happy.
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