It really hurts to know that girl you really love is just using you. Most times the signs are there but we just fail to see them. Being in a relationship with a girl who is just using you really hurts and can leave you low in confidence.
Below are 6 signs your girlfriend is just using you
1. SHE WOULD NEVER INTRODUCE YOU AS A BOYFRIEND
When a woman truly loves a man, she would be proud to let the whole world know he is her man. If your girlfriend introduces you to her friends as just a friend (even after months of dating), then that could just be a sign she is using you.
2. SHE NEVER PAYS FOR ANYTHING
When a woman really loves you, she won’t mind paying the bills sometimes when you hang out with her. If she is just using you, she would never spend a dime of hers on you. If every time she sees you, she wants you to take her to some expensive restaurants and spend big bucks, then she is definitely using you.
3. SHE RARELY RETURNS YOUR CALL
When a woman is just using you, she would rarely call you or return your calls. There is always an excuse for not calling you. In fact, she only calls you when a holiday is approaching. If a woman really loves you, she would always want to pick up the phone and call you, she won’t wait till Valentine’s Day is approaching before she calls.
4. SHE NEVER WANTS TO MEET YOUR FRIENDS AND FAMILY
When a girl is using you, she would always look for reasons not to meet your family and friends. She might give you reasons you think are very genuine but the truth remains that if she really loves you, she would want to be a part of your world which includes meeting your friends and family.
5. SHE HAS S*X WITH YOU ONLY WHEN SHE WANTS
When she has s*x with you only when she wants, it could be a sign that she is using you. She initiates it when she feels like and ends it when she feels like. She could make out with you if she feels pity for you and think you deserve to have s*x with her and such moments are rare.
6. SHE HAS ANOTHER RELATIONSHIP
When you first asked her out, she probably told you her love life is complicated but months after dating her she is still dating the other guy. She claims she isn’t happy with him but she still won’t break up with him. It could be a sign she doesn’t love you but loves something about you.
Do you think your girl is using you?