Sometime ago, I brought you 4 major secrets men keep from women; discussing in detail, some of the things men would rather keep to themselves than share with their women. If you really read that article, then you know that men aren’t the only ones who like to hide things. Women also keep secrets, and the funny thing about theirs is that men aren’t their only victims. Lol (no offence). When women lie, they do it to everyone (men and women alike) because they just have trust issues. On this occasion, I’ll be sharing some of the most common ones with you. So sit back, relax, and check out the 4 major secrets women love to keep.
1. THEIR AGE
There’s a reason they say ‘a woman never reveals her age…’ it’s because they just don’t. A vast majority of women would rather lose a friendship than divulge their true age. I used to wonder what the big deal is until a close friend told me. She said the reason most women lie about their age is because of the ‘time factor’. You know, naturally, women age faster than men, so to keep the balance, and remain ‘relevant, they lie about their actual age by a deducting a few years. Also, most men tend to go for younger women for marriage. This makes a lot of women lie (especially those above 30) so they could get a partner.
2. HOW MANY MEN CAME BEFORE YOU
Women are also humans like men so they care about their reputation. No woman wants to be called all sorts of names so they’d rather lie about the number of men they have dated considering the way the society view women who have had multiple sexual partners. Some women also do this because they are in love, and do not want to lose their man. In all, women keep this kind of secret to keep a healthy reputation.
3. HOW MUCH SHE EARNS
Most women are naturally dependent. No matter how much money they make or have, they just can’t seem to stop looking up to their man for more. They’ll even go as far as lying about how much they earn, just to collect more from the men in their lives. I’ve seen women who keep their jobs and businesses a secret from their man. That’s how serious it is. Lol.
4. HOW SHE REALLY FEELS ABOUT HER LOVE LIFE
When a woman is in love, she’d do anything to protect her man…even fake sexual pleasure and orgasm. Studies have shown that a vast majority of women do not reach orgasm during sexual intercourse, but most men do not know this, and that’s because a lot of women choose not to be honest about their true sexual feelings. Countless stories have also come out of how many women are increasingly dissatisfied with their sex lives, but when you ask them in bed, they pretend to be enjoying your skills. Can’t say I blame these women though, sometimes, they lie and fake these feelings just so they do not hurt their man’s ego (yeah…men have a very fragile ego) and so people don’t have a very twisted impression of them. The larger society tends to brand you negatively the moment you come clean about issues regarding sex. I’ve seen women branded ‘nymphomaniacs’ and the like, just because they were honest about their sexual feelings/fantasies.
So there you have it. Remember, while it may seem ‘cool’ to lie to your partner and keep secrets from them be warned that they are extremely unhealthy for a relationship. If you want to be in a relationship with someone you claim to love, they deserve nothing but complete honesty from you.