Some people are single by choice while some are single not because they chose to, but because they just can’t seem to get someone hooked…no matter how much they try, these sets of people just can’t get someone into their lives. It’s one thing to be available, and an entirely different thing to be admirable. Some people are available, but they’re just not admirable, and here are possible reasons why that is so.
1. YOU DON’T ASK
They say, ‘ask and you shall receive’, but some of us just don’t get this. There’s no way you can get something you don’t make an effort to get; if you want a partner, you must walk up to someone you like and tell them. I get that some people are shy and fear rejection, but that won’t get you anywhere, if you desire something/someone, you go get it, life is about risks.
2. YOUR PERSONAL HYGIENE IS NEXT TO ZERO
You can wear the most expensive designer outfits, but unless you’re really clean, there’s no way you’re leaving a good impression. Some people are so dirty they don’t even bath and brush their teeth often. Your body, teeth and clothing should be well cleaned if you want to make a good impression on people. Everyone likes cleanliness, so it’s a step towards getting hitched.
3. YOU’RE A NOTORIOUS CHEAT
Some people are so promiscuous they make a reputation out of it. When everyone knows you’re an incorrigible cheat, they tend to stay far away from you as possible because no one wants to be associated with an unreliable person. Promiscuous people are unreliable; they are considered to be heart-breakers, some people don’t know this, but it can render you unattractive to potential partners.
4. YOU NAG TOO MUCH
This is more for women than men. Some women can cause you a heavy migraine with their constant complaining. If there’s one thing men hate about women the most, it is nagging. It doesn’t matter how pretty you may seem, if you nag, men will automatically find you unappealing.
5. YOU’RE A NEGATIVE PERSON
Some of us just don’t see the good in any situation or people; we only see the bad. People like that usually have a negative vibe around them, they rarely even smile or laugh—It’s bad! People want to be associated with positivity and happiness; you need to change that about you, if you’re someone like that.
6. YOU’RE SLOW
Some people are just too slow when it comes expressing their feelings for someone they like. They finally meet their crush, and rather than cut right to the Chase or at least, drop a hint, they decide to play it cool—and get friend-zoned in the end. If you like someone, make your feelings known ASAP…delay is dangerous!